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Have a blog? Love oral sex? Tell the world with a snazzy button! Oral-Friendly Blog Button contest here- vote, comment & contribute. (more…)

Yes, Tenga Lip Service toys *are* everything they’re cracked up to be… and more. The sheer awesomeness of surprise orgasms helped along by a vacuum seal that’s just scary (see below) is mind blowing. Honey#1’s knees are still shaking a week later. (more…)

Woo! I’m absolutely tickled to have been accepted as a Good Vibrations Brand Ambassador (curtsey). What does it mean? I get a new, cool sex toy from the kind folks at Good Vibes every month, and all I need to do is play with it in every imaginable way, and then tell you about it. I love my life :-). (more…)

Yeah, I know, it’s been more than a week since Cybernet Expo 2009. In my defense, all that hugging, kissing and groping left me with a bad cold. Finally got enough energy to tell you how much fun I had. Tadaah!

Cybernet Expo is, according to a number of attendees I spoke to, THE BEST Adult Internet conference anywhere. Three days of classes, networking and parties left me with a full notebook, a pile of business cards, head full of great new ways to improve my adult business and a horde of new, fun friends (shoutout to awesome Mollena and that heartbreaker, M. Christian!). A miserable cold was entirely optional.

I’ll cop to being a geek - I skipped the parties to be at all the classes. Writing for adult web sites, search engine optimization, marketing through social networks… just couldn’t make up my mind. Except of course for Kink.com party at the Armory. Being a drooling member of MenInPain.com, that was like Christmas, and I got to see Santa’s workshop!

Wanna take a peek? Here are some photos from the Armory - eat your heart out ;-). See you at the next Cybernet Expo!

Come into my parlor...

John Sanchez at work

Interrogation cell

Gina in chains

Deliciously menacing

I want one!

Gina, me & Team Blue

Go team Blue!

NOT playfighting!

Blue in trouble

Face sitting-extra points!

A very happy audience

When SF Weekly attacked Kink.com and consensual BDSM in a manner worthy of National Enquirer, they did not expect a major community outcry. However, San Francisco’s BDSM community is not used to taking things laying down (more…)

The dust is slowly settling, and Craigslist is once again filled with adult ads… in the new Adult Services categories. Now that the category ads are eyeballed and manually approved, most of them are offering “massage” (no surprise there).

Craiglist has also filed a suit against the publicity loving South Carolina Attorney General who wouldn’t stop harassing the site. In a classic Bush Junior move, Att. Gen. (who hopes to run for a Governor Real Soon), has in return called for a press conference, declared “MIssion Accomplished“, and quietly folded. Presumably, to find other targets who won’t fight back.

This soap opera has shook the adult service world, and I’ve received a lot of questions about other adult classifieds sites ladies can advertise on instead. Here’s a little list that works- (more…)

Today, Craigslist announced closing of its Erotic Services section, finally bowing to the media and politician feeding frenzy related to the murder of Julissa Brisman, a sensual masseuse advertising her services in the Craigslist’s naughty neighborhood.

I say “related”, not “caused”, because the “Craigslist Killer” case was simply an excuse to raise a few network’s ratings and increase the popular appeal of a certain camera-loving Attorney General. Sex, murder and a moral crusade - oh, how we Americans love that golden (ka-ching!) combination. (more…)

The good ole Catholic guilt has been replaced with Green guilt. Yes, even in the bedroom (or wherever else you choose to practice your vices). You replaced all of your old sex toys with a healthy phthalate-free version. Glass dildoes glitter in your toy-box, and the wholesome all natural water based lube sits on your bed stand.

Yet, just like the ghost of that secret McDonald’s burger you snarfed a few days back, your old sex toys lurk in the back of the closet. What to do? You can just imagine the garbage man accidentaly ripping the trash bag right at your front door. Or the decades long poisonous meltdown in a local landfill. Do vibrators go critical at a certain density? Considering all the exotic materials we were blightly sticking up our tender places for the past 20 years or so, you’re at least bound to cost some poor amphibian an involuntary gender reassignment.

Dreamscape’s got your back, environmentally conscious sex fiends (I’m talking to you, San Francisco)! We finally have a way to sin and be saved - www.recycleyoursextoy.com. Send in your used (and washed, for Pete’s sake) sex toys to be recycled, and you not only help Momma Earth stay pure(r), but also get a $10 gift card towards your new sex toy.

Extra, extra, read all about it : “California’s government has been subsidizing torture-based pornography”!

Take lurid imagery of young, naked, helpless women being forced into electrocution, whipping and public degradation, add an occasional Abu Grahib reference, throw in an “expert” opinion by a lone San Francisco shrink who still thinks that BDSM equals Nazi camps, and what do you get? (more…)

Update: Got the discount extended till Apr. 26th. Whoohoo! Just enter code LVNG while registering.

Just like during the dot-com bust, the ongoing recession has dried up the market for live adult entertainment in the Bay Area more than anywhere else… Many escorts and exotic dancers are looking to cast their net further - some travel to the greener pastures around the country, others have turned to the Internet, becoming webcam models or building their own pay sites.

But where’s a girl (or boy, or t-girl) to get educated on how to make it in this new market? We in the Bay Area now have a unique chance to learn it from the pros!

The annual Cybernet Expo, run by the Adult Internet giant Ynot.com has picked San Francisco for its July event. Early birds get a great discount on passes, and Lovings.com has secured an extra discount for our friends - Save $125 off at-the-door price; but you have to get in touch NOW, it’s only good till April 15th! (more…)